The Marriage Equality Decision
What is the Bible Believer’s Response to the
Question of Marriage Equality?
1st Corinthians 6
April 26, 2015 AM
Pastor Craig Ledbetter
Bible Baptist Church,
Ballincollig, Cork, Ireland
I.
Introduction (Luke 17:24-30)
A.
It is Amazing how CLEARLY the Bible predicts things
1.
Jesus said as it was in the
days of Noah, and the days of Lot…
a.
God was completely
rejected, not even tolerated in Sodom, just as Jesus is rejected today
b.
People going along with
their lives, as if nothing matters
c.
But did destroy this world
with a flood
d.
And God did destroy Sodom
and Gomorrah, with fire
e.
And so is it happening once
again, just before Jesus returns, and judges this world again!
2.
Listen to 1Timothy 3:1-4
Sounds just like today! It has NOT always been this way!
3.
Don’t dupe yourself into
thinking this world is getting better and better! It isn’t!
B.
There is a BATTLE, a WAR raging…
C.
Against GOD! (Romans 1:30, “…haters of God…”)
1.
The Media (TV, Movies,
Facebook, Twitter, Sports, Newspapers)
2.
The Governments of this
world
3.
Schools
4.
ALL pushing, for the honour
and elevation of such wicked sin, and granting such sin, the power to have your
children, and teach your children, and expose themselves to your children, and
leave nothing clean, and pure and godly for the next generation!
5.
Basically, almost a
complete shut out of dissent – bullying
6.
BUT! We have a vote!
Amazing! May 22nd, 2015
II.
Preliminary Facts
A.
What is about to happen if people don’t wake up
1.
What the proposed change
will say:
a.
The Irish government
proposes to add to the Constitution a declaration that "marriage may be contracted in accordance with law by two persons without
distinction as to their sex".
2.
Ireland will be the first
country in the world to allow its people to vote on Same Sex Marriage – and it
is only because we HAVE TO VOTE ON IT! Our blessed constitution does THREE
THINGS:
a.
Limits the power of the
legislature and courts to make these decisions
b.
Honours not just God, but
the Lord Jesus Christ and HIS view on life and society
c.
And forces the entire
country to be a part of any changes to the constitution!
d.
ALL other countries have
never been allowed a vote – because in every country the majority have voted to
retain the traditional meaning of marriage, and excluded same sex participants
from the elevated honour and
protection and support that Traditional marriage has been given for the past
4,000 years!
3.
Listen to the opening words
of the Amazing Constitution of the Republic of Ireland!
CONSTITUTION OF IRELAND
In the Name of the Most Holy Trinity,
from Whom is all authority and to Whom, as our final end, all actions
both of men and States must be referred,
We, the people of Éire,
Humbly acknowledging all our obligations to
our Divine Lord, Jesus Christ,
Who sustained our fathers through centuries of trial,
Gratefully remembering their heroic and unremitting struggle to regain the
rightful independence of our Nation,
And seeking to promote the common good, with due observance of Prudence,
Justice and Charity, so that the dignity and freedom of the individual may
be assured, true social order attained, the unity of our country restored,
and concord established with other nations,
Do hereby adopt, enact, and give to ourselves this Constitution.
a.
This was no simple
document. It has 16,000 words, and is divided into 50 sections, called Articles.
There have been 26 amendments since 1937.
b.
It is in no way a perfect
Document, but it is the law of Ireland!
c.
The Irish Constitution ends
with these words…
1)
Dochum Glóire Dé agus Onóra na hÉireann
2)
Which means, Courageously
glorify God and honour Ireland!
4.
Now listen to What the
Constitution currently says about Marriage and the FAMILY…
ARTICLE 41
1 1° The State recognises the Family
as the natural primary and fundamental unit group of Society, and as a moral
institution possessing inalienable
and imprescriptible rights,
antecedent and superior to all
positive law.
2° The State, therefore, guarantees
to protect the Family in its constitution and authority, as the
necessary basis of social order and as indispensable to the welfare of the
Nation and the State.
…
3 1° The State pledges itself to
guard with special care the institution of
Marriage, on which the Family is
founded, and to protect it against
attack.
5.
NO WONDER HOMOSEXUALS HAVE TO CHANGE THIS DOCUMENT!
B.
Why This Vote Matters
1.
The Media and the
Government are LYING about this referendum
a.
The Same Sex Marriage
referendum has nothing to do with children. (Repeat over and over and over)
b.
This vote is only about
“respect”
c.
“Anyone should be allowed
to marry the person we love” – Jerry Buttimer, Thursday night debate
d.
“We must RIGHT
the wrong of exclusion of homosexuals from Marriage” – Jerry Buttimer
e.
“Most people aren’t
religious”
f.
“Two Daddies or Two Mommies
are just as good as a Daddy and a Mommy”
g.
“The Bible has nothing to
do with this referendum” – REALLY? Have you READ the Irish Constitution?????
2.
The Truths About Politics
a.
I guess all, or at least
almost all politicians have LIED about their stand on traditional marriage and
homosexuality to get elected
b.
Examples:
1)
“[The Children and Family Relationships
Bill] is the most important change in family legislation since the foundation of
the state. It’s a really important bill.”
Those were the words of Taoiseach Enda Kenny on Feb 17, 2015. But he
didn’t always believe that! He NEVER committed himself on this issue until
2013!!!
2)
The Minister for Health,
Leo Varadkar, said, when speaking on the Civil Partnership Bill 2010:
a)
“Every child has the right to a mother
and father and, as much as is possible, the State should vindicate that right.
That is a much more important right than that of two men or women having a
family. That is the principle that should underline our laws regarding children
and adoption.
b)
“I am also uncomfortable
about adoption by single people, regardless of their sexual orientation. I do
not believe I as a single man should adopt a child. The child should go to
parents, a mother and father, to replace what the child had before.”
c)
Well, Jan 18, 2015, said he
“is gay” and says “it is no secret.”
3)
Countless others in
government have been elected as unknown, and then came “out” and then got
re-elected, with great pride.
4)
And then there is Barack
Obama
a)
In August 2008, he told
Southern California megachurch Pastor Rick Warren his definition of marriage: "I
believe that marriage is the union between a man and a woman. Now, for me as a
Christian, it is also a sacred union. God's in the mix."
b)
He had written on the 1996
questionnaire, "I favor legalizing same-sex marriages, and would fight efforts
to prohibit such marriages."
c)
Just two years later, on
another Outlines questionnaire, Obama wasn’t so sure. Did he favor legalizing
same-sex marriage? "Undecided." Would he support a bill to repeal Illinois
legislation prohibiting same-sex marriage? "Undecided." Would he co-sponsor it?
"Undecided."
d)
Later years offered greater
clarity — and a shift from 1996. Civil unions? Yes. Gay marriage? No.
e)
As Obama sought a U.S.
Senate seat in 2004, he told the Windy City Times, "I am a fierce supporter of
domestic-partnership and civil-union laws. I am not a supporter of gay marriage
as it has been thrown about, primarily just as a strategic issue. I think that
marriage, in the minds of a lot of voters, has a religious connotation. ..."
f)
He described his hesitation
to endorse same-sex marriage as strategic and political.
c.
Don’t trust a politician.
Keep his feet to the fire until he votes right, and honours his pledge to obey
the Constitution!
3.
Second Reason Why This
Referendum Matters… Because words have meanings
a.
Marriage, by definition is
two consenting people of opposite sex, entering into a binding and protective
agreement, becoming physically one unit.
b.
The proper, dictionary
definition of marriages is as follows:
c.
"The act of uniting a man
and woman for life; wedlock; the legal union of a man and woman for life.
Marriage is a contract both civil and religious, by which the parties engage to
live together in mutual affection and fidelity, till death shall separate them.
Marriage was instituted by God himself for the purpose of preventing the
promiscuous intercourse of the sexes, for promoting domestic felicity, and for
securing the maintenance and education of children."
d.
The words 'Traditional
marriage', is a valid title, because it already fits all over the world. Any new
definition of marriage violates absolutely ALL current definitions in all
countries. There are no nations that traditionally held to same sex marriage.
e.
Not only redefining
Marriage, but will completely destroy the meaning of the word, FAMILY
4.
Because Mothers and Fathers
matter, but they no longer will under this bill. Labels won’t matter.
5.
Because Children matter.
But not after this referendum. A group on the No side said that, if enacted in
its present form, the legislation “would promote arrangements where children are
intentionally denied either a mother or a father”.
6.
Because Freedom of speech
matters. But not after this bill. Homosexuality will now be enshrined in the
protection of law so that a Biblical Christian will possibly find himself or
herself on the wrong side of the law for stating Biblical facts.
7.
Lastly, because GOD matters
– His opinion counts most!
C.
Things we will LOSE when the Homosexuals win:
1.
A bible-believing Christian
won't be able to:
2.
Speak out freely about sin
– ANY sexual sin
a.
You won't be able to say
anything that might appear biased against homosexuality.
b.
You won't be able to tell
the truth about the moral degradation of homosexuals
c.
People already are pushing
for acceptance that paedophiles are not evil
3.
Work in the field of
counselling
4.
Conduct ministries to help
homosexuals leave that lifestyle
5.
Use the terms
father/mother, husband/wife, boy/girl
6.
Honour homosexual
lifestyles in your business.
7.
Turn down a blatant
homosexual for a job.
8.
Enforce public nudity laws.
9.
Stop homosexuals from
having public sex.
10.
Have women-only public
restrooms.
11.
Refuse to place children
with homosexual couples.
12.
In a nutshell, the thing
that will be illegal when homosexuality is fully legal, is Bible-believing
Christianity! But none of this is surprising to the Bible believer. The Lord
Jesus Christ likened the last days to that of Sodom and Gomorrah (Luke
17:28-30).
D.
The sad facts of our modern society
1.
1/3 of all children in
Ireland are now being raised in non-traditional homes
a.
Barely one parent around
b.
Being taken cared of by
“the State”, by schools, babysitters, the TV
2.
Family Life stinks
a.
Traditional Marriages are
failing. Seriously failing.
b.
Constant disappointments
with “normal” society
c.
Have poor relationships
with their parents, if the parents are even there
d.
Little or NO affection in
so many homes - Just constant bitterness and anger
3.
So much confusion in Music
and Entertainment
a.
Children are hearing about
and exploring and being taught to approve of sinful lifestyles like never before
b.
It already was in motion
for the past few decades via the confusion of the MTV programming, sex in
movies, and drive to ever push the envelope to teach ever younger children about
sex.
c.
Constant mockery of male
and female roles
d.
Cross dressing
e.
Aggressive music, sung by
long haired, beautiful women???
f.
Effeminate, girly music
sung by bearded teenage boy bands???
g.
Constant praise and
applause of openly sinful lifestyles in Media (nakedness, homosexual acts, porn
everywhere, overdosing on sex everywhere)
h.
The Media have a lot to
answer for
i.
But it is US PARENTS who
have tolerated and allowed this to get this far!
4.
Majority of civilised
people are IGNORANT of who God really is, and how important he is to life itself
– you have no life without Him! Do not know Jesus, the Jesus of the Bible!
5.
Society has created this
explosion of homosexuality, and all the hatred and anger that is wrapped up in
it! Homosexuality is not in our genes, it is in our homes, and on our TVs, and
in our music, and our computer games!
III.
Background (Hebrews 13:4)
A.
Unmistakably Clear Scriptures Against Homosexuality
1.
1Cor 6:9-10
2.
Romans 1:24-28
3.
1Timothy 1:9,10
4.
2Peter 2:6
5.
Jude 1:7
6.
As well as dozens of Old
Testament Scriptures like Leviticus 18:22
B.
Homosexuality is not genetic, is not natural, is
not right. It is wrong, and sinful.
1.
We all are sinners from the
heart – SIN, is in our nature – not specific sins, but the desire to disobey God
and do our own thing – is in all our nature
2.
That sinful nature will
always gravitate towards something WRONG
3.
And currently, about 7% of
the population is gravitating towards homosexuality
C.
Homosexual sins are not singled out in the Bible,
as the only bad sin – even though it is bad
D.
But it is the one sin that currently is flaunted,
and applauded and honoured everywhere in our societies
E.
Homosexual sins are serious sins – According to GOD
1.
They cannot be just
accepted, and respected and allowed to be protected by the highest law in our
land – the Constitution!
2.
Can you imagine if King
David, after committing adultery with another man’s wife (which is what he did
do), if he then sought to CHANGE the definition of Adultery in the Law??? Hmmm.
We know why he might have wanted to do that! Because all of us are naturally
lovers of ourselves, more than lovers of God!
F.
I have the Biblical MANDATE to Speak Out (Ephesians
5:11,12)
1.
They want to come out
2.
Well, then they need to be
ready to face Bible believers who will speak out
3.
I am not on a crusade
against homosexuality. I stand and preach unashamedly against every sin.
4.
But it is THE HOMOSEXUALS
that brought this on. They decided to hijack Marriage. It was THEM who want
children now.
5.
Most people are totally
ignorant of what is good, and clean, and pure, and holy, and right (Ezek 44:23;
Isa 5:20 “Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness
for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for
bitter!”)
6.
I HAVE to Warn – that’s the
job of EVERY Christian (Romans 1:18-
a.
Not to make you feel loved
b.
But to put the fear of God
in you
c.
Listen to the word of God!
1)
Rom 1:18
For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and
unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;
2)
Am I reading from the “OLD,
archaic, ancient, out of date” OLD Testament?
3)
NO! I am reading from the
NEW Testament!
IV.
Main Message
A.
Sin has Ruined us ALL (1Corinthians 6:9-10)
1.
Not one of us escapes the
ruin of sin
2.
As I said, sin is in all of
us – there is no one righteous, no not one (Rom 3:10). ALL of us have sinned,
and all of us come way short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23)
3.
Look at the list of sins
the Apostle Paul gives
a.
Fornication – any sex
outside of traditional marriage
b.
Idolatry – worship of
anything other than God (like money, girls bodies, like power, as well as bowing
before statues and images)
c.
Adultery – that is still
wrong – and it covers physical acts of adultery as well as the emotional and
mental acts that go on almost constantly in people’s hearts, even though
married)
d.
Effeminate – wow! Where did
THAT word come from? That is a sin listed showing when someone tries to CHANGE
what they are – transsexual, transgender, cross-dressing
e.
Abusers of themselves with
mankind – describing homosexual acts – quite violent
f.
Thievery – Wow! Stealing,
robbing someone is a sin we all agree!
g.
Covetous (Heb 13:5) – just
being unhappy with what you currently have is a SIN
h.
Drunkenness – just look at
the ruin that drink has caused this country
i.
Reviling – fierce yelling,
anger, bitter attitudes towards others – THAT’S a SIN
j.
And Extortion – well,
finally, bankers and lawyers and car salesmen are listed!
4.
The wages of our sin is
God’s judgement – DEATH (Romans 6:23)
5.
So, where is the hope in
all that? It’s in the next verse!
B.
But God Has Made A Way To Be Restored (1Cor 6:11)
1.
A way to be changed,
transformed
2.
“Such WERE some of you” –
blessed words
a.
It’s like hearing that a
cancer is now gone from your body
b.
It’s like having all the
hatred and bitterness in your soul, flushed away and replaced with real and
lasting love and joy!
3.
God loves sinners
(John 3:16). That may be news to you, but, God loves adulterers. God loves
rapists. God loves SINNERS! In case you have forgotten, that includes
homosexuals. Because they all have a soul, and are infinitely valuable to their
Creator!
4.
But that in no way means He
loves their sin (Read it again, but continue to verse 19)!
a.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that
whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
b.
John 3:17
For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that
the world through him might be saved.
c.
John 3:18
He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not
is condemned already, because he hath
not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
d.
John 3:19
And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world,
and men loved darkness rather than
light, because their deeds were evil.
5.
As a matter of fact, God
went out of His way to come down HERE and become a MAN, so that He could take
the PUNISHMENT that adulterers, and rapists, and fornicators, and thieves, and
liars, and homosexuals deserve!
a.
Matthew 1:21
b.
As a matter of fact, I
stand with the great Apostle Paul, and unashamedly say, “This is a faithful saying, and worthy of all acceptation, that Christ
Jesus came into the world to save sinners; of whom I am chief.” 1Tim 1:15
6.
That is GRACE!
a.
The message of the
gospel—the entire storyline of scripture—is God’s loving pursuit of people who
run from him as fast as they can and who live lives unworthy of his love.
b.
That’s why it’s called
grace.
c.
People are used to only
being told to be good little boys and girls, and God will love us and bless us.
But that is the total opposite of the gospel. It’s a counterfeit of the worse
kind.
d.
The wonder of the gospel is
not the love of the beautiful; it is the love of an all holy, all pure, perfect,
sinless Almighty God, for fallen, sinful, broken, messed up people.
e.
The sinful man or sinful
woman is not loved because he or she has changed themselves for the better; the
sinner is changed when he or she discovers they are loved by such a God. Joy
doesn’t come when he or she is loved for their beauty and goodness; joy
overwhelms us when we discover we are loved in our hideousness.
f.
If the sinner, the thief,
adulterer, the rapist were loved BECAUSE of their beauty, it would be a mockery
of God and of righteousness.
g.
But if they are loved in
spite of their sin, then there is HOPE!
7.
And it is offered to
everyone!
V.
Conclusion - What do we do?
A.
Fear God folks! He offers
grace, but not forever. His wrath will come. Not mine. Not a church’s. Not a
government’s. But God’s righteous wrath, against ALL ungodliness!
B.
Believe God! Turn to God,
repenting of YOUR sins.
C.
Cry out to Jesus Christ to
have mercy on you a sinner. To take away your sin, and replace it with Himself!
D.
Christian! Start to pray
every day for our nation, and her leaders – for God to humble us and turn our
hearts back to Him
E.
Voice your opinion! People
think No voters are few and far between
F.
Give the Gospel to everyone
that Jesus saves sinners of every kind!
G.
Register to vote – this
week!
H.
Write, Phone, Email and
visit a TD and let them know you are voting No on this referendum
I.
Finally, VOTE on May 22nd! |